I've been doing some thinking lately and I've come to the conclusion that I'm not getting married and possibly not having kids. I don't have commitment issues at all. My problem is finding willing to commit.
Commitment: to show loyalty, duty or pledge to something or someone
I've found that more than half the women who are in a rush to commit don't even know what the meaning of it is. As a child little girls are taught that Prince Charming will come one day and sweep them off their feet. That's the problem! They're not taught what to do get the prince to notice them and then live happily ever after. Or that there are more than one prince trying to get in the way (Prince Spend Money, Prince Lie To U, Prince Closet Gay, etc.). Some women have a habit of rushing into a relationship and wanting the get married and have 2.5 kids with the big house. If that doesn't happen in their time frame or the way that THEY want it then they will keep kissing frogs. I may not be a prince but I'm far from a frog!!
I know there are quite a few faithful women left (and not just the ones that make it sound good on paper) but until I find my princess I'm gonna live the single life!
You cannot just blame the women. Men rush into relationships for the wrong reasons too. Knowing damn well they're not ready for the responsibilities that come with that commitment.
ReplyDeleteI don't think you should give up on marriage or children just yet. You're still young and you still have time to meet the "right" woman for you.